For people arriving, and for the cafes, campuses and services that meet them.
MEANWHILEA feed for the places you care about — before you're in them.
Halifax · 9:12 a.m.▶0:24
coffee's hot, dog's happy, that'll do
JJoseph♥ 2.4k
Chengdu · 8:04 p.m.
my neighbour taught me in her kitchen. attempt #3: first edible one 🍲
LLin · recipe♡ 981
READ · FIRST WINTER · 4 MIN
The month I stopped waiting to feel ready.
English / Arabic
Amina · Glasgow☆ 481
Melbourne · new
ten minutes from home. TEN MINUTES.
3 people you follow have met one too♡ 312
GROUP · THIS WEEKEND
quiet Sunday wandering club 🍂
low talk, good walks. come on your own, everyone does
12 going
👋 several members are new here too
🍂 matches your arrival window🏠 happening in your neighbourhood
the whole idea
The place that works for you should still be a place you want.
01 · WHAT YOU NEED
You know what you need from a place. Rent you can actually cover, a life you can manage without a car, somewhere that stocks the food you actually eat.
your actual listNo two people need the same place.
🏡
✓rent that leaves me aloneno negotiating with my bank balance.
👟
✓a walkable weekmost days, just put your shoes on.
🥬
✓a shop with all five ingredientsno hopeful swaps, no half-measures.
+…and whatever else matters to me
02 · WHAT YOU WANT
And you know what you'd want past that. A cosy town, or a big city with lights that stay on late. People who find the same things funny. Somewhere for the hobby you've done for ten years and the one you've never had room to start, no eyebrow raised at either.
lights still on
ten years in
room to breathe
And, quietly, dignity and safety in your own body.
“
THE FEAR IS THAT THOSE DON'T COME TOGETHER
Not for me. Not somewhere I'd genuinely like.
That gap is the whole reason LikeMe exists.
Because the country you've been dreaming about is bigger than you know.
Inside it are cities 🌃, towns 🏘️ and neighbourhoods 🚶 whose rhythm already feels like yours, places that match how you actually move through the world. Not weighted by popularity, but by what fits you.
The 5 names everyone knows→the 1,200 nobody's told you aboutAcross cities, towns, and anywhere else people make a life
Sometimes it's a name you've never heard. It just fits, and you realise your world was always larger than the version you'd been shown.
a place that fits you · population 40,000 · you'd never have searched for it
We know which places suit you because you told us how you live, and the people there told us what everyday life is actually like.
YOU · WHAT YOUR WEEK NEEDSTHEM · WHAT IT'S ACTUALLY LIKE
And if you already know where you’re going — a job, a course, a visa, or just four days in March — you don’t have to learn every useful thing the hard way.
WHAT FEELING READY LOOKS LIKE
01
What day one actually looks like.
JUST ARRIVEDSTEP 1 / 4
FIRST 24 HOURS
✓
🔑 get from arrivals to your keys
📶 get connected
🛒 pick up the first essentials🌅 make tomorrow easier
show me this step →
02
The language people use when nobody is being formal.
💬 NEW MESSAGEyou alright?
yes… why?DRAFT
💡 THEY'RE JUST SAYINGhi.
you sayyeah, you?
03
Who pays on a first date.
🍽️ what usually happens
Offer to split. If they invited, they may offer to pay, but splitting is never a wrong move.
👀 what actually matters
That you reached.
🎛️ shifts with
agewho invited whomwhat was normal at home
04
The newcomer hurdles you shouldn’t have to untangle at midnight.
🔁 THE LOOP
💳 ACCOUNT🏠 ADDRESSand round it goes
▼
LLIKEME GUIDE · 🏦 THE WAY THROUGH
Banks here that let you start before you have a permanent address:
Provider ATEMP ADDRESS
Provider BPASSPORT ONLY
Provider CBEFORE MOVE-IN
see the banks that let you start here →
Guides for what’s next. Kits for knowing a place, inside and out. And people for the things only people can tell you.
You don’t have to know everything before you feel ready. You just have to know where to turn when the next question shows up.
The rest of the time, it stays useful.
✈️
A SHORT TRIP
Ends up being actually yours, not someone else's list with your dates pasted on.
🧳
IF YOU'RE STAYING
You land already knowing where to register with a doctor and what to sort first.
🌱
THREE WEEKS IN
You've stopped checking how to do things and started just doing them.
🏡
A YEAR IN
It's just where you live, and someone two streets away is asking the thing you now happen to know.
Tell us what you want or need, and watch your street come alive.
Tap what matters to you 👆 the same street rearranges itself around your life:
Tap a chip or two 👆 the street listens.
🥐
Bakery
$2 pastry, and a table you can keep all morning
🎤
Karaoke bar
step-free at the door, open till 2am, the song list has your language too
🥬
Grocer
your spices, your rice, the brand your mum used — actually stocked
🩺
Walk-in clinic
Saturday mornings, the GP who listens the first time
⚽
Five-a-side pitch
Thursday pickup, turn up and you're playing
🌲
Trailhead
20 minutes by bus, the loop that ends at the waterfall
💈
Barber
cuts your hair like it’s ordinary, books by text
🎮
Board game cafe
table in the back, Friday drafts, someone will teach you the rules
🫶
Community hall
walk in alone — it’s fine here
Checked place data, and what people living there chose to share. 🧮
the journey
Come in at any depth.
💭 Just curious. 🔎 In research mode. 📦 Booking things or packing boxes. 🍂 Your first week. ☕ Eventually, just your Tuesday, the one where you stop counting weeks because you're already home.
You can hold several places at once. Dreaming about one. Preparing for another. Already local in a third. Visiting for four days, studying for three years, or just starting to wonder. Still checking the weather where someone you love wakes up. All of them real, all of them yours.
Start wherever each place sits in your life right now.
LikeMe meets you wherever you are with a place today, and changes with you as it becomes something else. Stay curious for as long as you like. Nothing has to become a plan before you're ready.
💭
depth · dreaming
See the life, not just the destination.
You might have one place in mind, three university offers, or a brief consisting mainly of please, no more winter. Start there.
You already have somewhere in mind.
Tell LikeMe what you like and what matters to you, and Amira will read the place for you.
What you’d enjoy there. How you’d get set up, and how the everyday things get done. What might rub a little, and how to get around it.
She draws on official information and answers from people there, including people whose lives look like yours.
Amiraotter · Toronto · reads a place around your life
PLACE READS
Halifax, for you? Tell me what changes the answer.
📋I’ll put checked information beside what people there say about actually living it.🔀Where the answer depends on who you are, you get yours — not the average.🫧If the evidence is thin, it stays thin.
— Amira
WHAT CHANGES THE ANSWER?
Add what matters. Skip what doesn’t.
The more LikeMe understands your ordinary week, the less it has to guess. tap each 👆
How you prefer to be talked to, how planned or unplanned you like your days, whether you're the one filling the room or just happy to be there, and the amount of noise and social buzz you're comfortable with. All part of the optional Culture Fingerprint.
No need to find the right words. The Fingerprint gives you two everyday scenarios for each topic. Just pick the one that sounds like your life.
🔒
Private lensesOPTIONAL · PRIVATE UNLESS YOU SAY OTHERWISE
If you want this part of you in the picture, tell LikeMe.
We’ll keep places with a known pattern of trouble off your list—no fuss. We’ll bring forward the things that change the answer for you, without making you dig for them. And if you ever want to hear from someone nearby who shares that part of your life, you can choose that too.
🔒 Your lenses stay private. They can shape what LikeMe shows you without appearing on your profile, and nothing is shared unless you decide to share it.
CULTURE FINGERPRINToptional
Some of what decides whether a place suits you is hard to put into words. So it doesn’t ask you to. It gives you two situations and you pick the one that sounds like your life.
🚪Neighbours who knock without warning — lovely, or a bit much?
🗣People who say it straight rather than soften it — relief, or hard work?
A series of easy, low-pressure questions that map four parts of how you move through a place, and one that decides how far from familiar you want to go. Enough for your Place Reads to tell two places apart.
Take it for a sharper read. Skip it and everything else still works. Yours might be:
☕
YOUR TYPEFavourite Customerreads the room · likes a plan that can bend · becomes a regular quietly
See what it readsshow
🫂
SOCIAL CURRENT
keeps to themselvescomes alive around people
strangers saying hello · neighbours knocking · meeting a whole group at once · whether a cafe starting your order feels warm or watched
👂
SOCIAL CODE
just say itreads the room
how feedback arrives · disagreeing out loud · being corrected in front of people · silence, and who fills it
🗓
STRUCTURE COMFORT
can wing itneeds things to work
time precision · what the sign says versus what everyone does · plans that move · formality, titles, and when first names start
🎭
VISIBILITY STYLE
blends inbecomes known
dressing to be noticed · speaking up in a group · taking credit out loud · being visibly different, and whether that’s fine here
↔
STRETCH ZONE
a place that already fitsone that pulls you a bit
how much unfamiliar you’re actually after, what it costs you, and what makes it worth it — a friend, the language, a reason to be there
Your position, not a score. Retake anytime.
Your type moves like you. They'll still order differently at dinner. The type is for finding your people. Your place matches are built from everything you actually told us.
share it, or keep it to yourself
FOR YOU ✨
HalifaxNova Scotia · example Place Read
hosted by Amira
THE SHORT VERSION
Halifax fits most of how you like to live: water close by, a week that works without a car, and a social rhythm where showing up at the same spots builds your circle faster than working a room.
Two things want planning rather than luck.
🚌getting aroundIn the inner city, a car-free week genuinely works. Further out, the city starts asking for a car.good
🍜groceries & hairWhat you actually buy is here, without Saturday turning into a supply run.good
🩺family doctorRegister for the provincial health plan the week you arrive. While you wait for your card, lean on a walk-in clinic and a regular pharmacy.plan for it
❄️winterThe city gets smaller for a few months. You'll want a routine that keeps you warm as you go about your day.plan for it
AJK
Checked information beside what people living here say. And where they disagree, you see that too. — Amira
You're choosing a course. You'll also be waking up somewhere new every morning of it.
Nobody really thinks about that part until they're there. But you can find most of it out now — what an ordinary week costs, where people who like what you like end up, whether the food you grew up on is in reach. Not so you can get it perfect. Just so it's less of a blank.
Then there's everything that only starts once you're there. A first month with nothing in any order. The thing you're not sure you're allowed to not know yet. And someone who arrived the same week you did, who you'd have got on with anyway.
Whether you've already said yes or you're still holding a few offers, LikeMe is for that side of it.
ON PAPERthe course
✓ offer accepted→IN PRACTICEyour ordinary week
💸what a normal week costs🚌getting home at midnight🍜the food you grew up with🎧somewhere to be on a Sunday🫂people you needn’t explain yourself to
Your university has the offer, the accommodation portal, arrival support and welcome week. The LikeMe map shows you the town around campus through what matters to you — what you like,what you need and who you are — with answers from people who live there. Some students, plenty not.
Then you get set up in it.
🪧🪧
Guides are step-by-step for anything practical, done the way it works here — the flat viewing, registering with a doctor, opening a bank account, and later on work that fits round lectures, or something going wrong with the flat.
🧭🧭
Kits are the other half: how people talk to each other here, what’s funny, what happens when someone invites you round. The stuff that’s obvious once you live somewhere.
👋👋
Introductions to people at your stage — day one or third year — up for working out uni life together, or just a conversation at 1 a.m.
first year · move-in week 🍂
Week one: found my room, my bus, a jollof spot and someone to laugh with.
Ddami · moved in September♡ 1.8k
FROM A STUDENT HERE
“The city felt smaller after I learned the number 1 bus.”
landed alone last September · ♡ 764
HOW IT ACTUALLY WORKS
🧭Kits
A short course for the city you’re headed to: how people there actually do things, in the words of people who live there. Take it on the plane, or in October when something stops making sense.
YOUR KIT · 3 OF 9 READ
✓does anyone actually put their hand up?→first names, or Professor?○where does everyone end up at 2am?
⚖️Side by side
Read each city the same way. What a week actually costs. How you’d get around. How access works day to day. What a free evening looks like in each.
the seaside one💸💸💸quiet sundays 🌊
the one that never sleeps💸💸💸always something on 🎧
🗺️Wander
The map, already set to your budget, your timetable and your idea of a good Saturday.
🍜🧋🌇
noodles, bubble tea, sit by the water 💤
📓Notebook
Everywhere you’ve saved, in one place. A quiet nudge when something you were counting on changes.
flat viewing thurs, 4pm!!🍜 that noodle place · 🚌 route changed
🫂Groups
For people new to the city, for your course, and for the things that have nothing to do with either.
new here 👋sunday walks 🍂film club 🎬up at 2am 🌙
❓Ask
The small question you’d rather just ask a person. Someone who lives there answers it.
is it weird to go on my own?MOnope, half of us do 🙂
WHAT GETS READ AROUND THE CAMPUS
🏠Housing
What your budget can find you, the neighbourhoods students end up in, and the streets people move to once they know the place a bit better.
shared-room rangestudio rangechecked this month
🚌Getting around
How your neighbourhood, timetable and transit pass fit together once the day includes groceries, a shift and getting home.
18 min to campuswhat the pass covers
💼Work around study
Work rights, typical shifts, and which jobs fit around your timetable once the commute joins the calculation.
rules checked for your visaevening & weekend options
♿Access in practice
How support carries into an ordinary Tuesday: routes, housing, quiet spaces, healthcare, the places you use every day.
step-free route savedquiet study nearby
📣Campus and beyond
Official updates from your university, alongside the local events and changes that fill out the week.
Coursemates, societies, culture groups, people from your part of the world, and people you’d have liked even if you’d never chosen the same degree.
some off your course, plenty not
Then it keeps going. The kit is still there in second term, the guides get less useful, and eventually someone asks you about the number 1 bus and you’re the one who knows.
🏛 FOR UNIVERSITIES
Campus is covered. The town isn’t, and most of a student’s week happens there.
Where the food is, what a normal week costs, how you get home at midnight, who else nearby is like you.
The registration sheets do their job; what nobody can hand over is the weekend with no shape to it, the people from week one who didn’t stick, the second year in a flat with a landlord.
That’s the part LikeMe stays for, alongside you. Someone who knows roughly how the place runs, has a routine, and knows two people by October is having a different year from someone who doesn’t, and that difference tends to show up in whether they’re still there in year two.
We’re working with a small number of institutions first, and we’d rather build this with you than present it finished.
Separately, and only ever in aggregate, you see what a cohort keeps needing — never who said what, never anyone’s private identity information. Most teams want the privacy model first. I can send it over before we talk.
You know what a good week looks like. You just haven’t got a name for where it happens.
Some people come to this having never left where they were born. Some have already tried somewhere, found it wasn’t the one, and quietly stopped guessing. Either is a fine place to start from — you’ve only ever been choosing from the names that reached you.
Each place below shows its workings.
why it came upwhat it does especially well for youthe trade-offhow much evidence sits behind the answer
The trade-offs stay visible. You should know what fits, what doesn’t, and what needs a plan.
STRONGEST FIT 🏆
Halifax
For the life you described, a lot lines up here: the pace, the budget, and a social life that does not require you to be “on” all the time.
💪strongest · a car-light ordinary week⚖️trade-off · doctor access needs a plan
evidence: strong
STRONG FIT · NEW RHYTHM 🌗
Valencia
The fit is just as real; the rhythm is less familiar. Later evenings, more life outdoors, and plenty happening without every day needing to feel loud.
💪strongest · walkable days with plenty happening⚖️trade-off · August changes the pace
evidence: strong
PROMISING FIT ✨
Kanazawa
This one came through the details: craft, water, calm, and the kind of ordinary day you said you wanted. The fit is promising; a few parts still need stronger evidence.
💪strongest · craft, water and calm⚖️trade-off · fewer matches for your language pair
evidence: thin in places, and marked clearly
PRACTICAL FIT 📋
Rotterdam
The ordinary week behaves itself here. Transport, paperwork and getting around ask less from you, even if the overall rhythm is not the closest match on the list.
💪strongest · transport and admin that work⚖️trade-off · less of the slower pace you asked for
evidence: strong
🛡️Safety comes before fit
A good lifestyle match never outranks a serious legal or safety concern. Those are shown plainly and can remove a place from the list.
One place does not stand in for an entire country.
💌
depth · staying close
Places that stay close
Maybe it's where your family is from. Where someone you love grew up. Or somewhere you left young enough that you're not sure what you actually remember. You might be going back next month, or you might just want to keep up with it from here. Either way, it's still yours.
📖 KIT
Love across two upbringings.
What counts as warm isn’t the same everywhere. What gets said, what doesn’t, what it means to turn up empty-handed. This one is for learning somebody else’s, three weeks in or twenty years in.
open to the chapter you need. no start-to-finish required.
🏠visiting their home
💬what a silence means
🎁who pays, and how much fuss
INSIDE THIS CHAPTER
✓what to bring, and what it means if you turn up without it✓what not to compliment✓how people show love here⚠what can read as cold if you do it your way
Works whether you're meeting their parents or finally understanding your own.
🧳 WHEN YOU DO GOtwo weeks in March
The list you started last time.
🎁 WHAT TO BRING4 of 7
✓the tea that isn't sold there✓next door — chocolate, nothing fancy○the twins — they're 14 now, not 9
❓ THE QUESTION YOU KEEP FORGETTING TO ASK
is it rude to stay in a hotel?
saved from last time · ask before the last night
📍 FROM THEREKingston · this week
You hear it early, from someone who's there.
the proud thing, the practical thing, and what the weather's doing.
M@marcia_kgnlast night · 🏆 sports
The under-19s took the regional final.
♥ 412💬 63your cousin liked this
D@delroy.h2h · 🗒 local noteTHU 06:00–11:00
Water's off in the old town Thursday morning. Fill something tonight 🪣
♥ 96💬 21confirmed by 8 locals
🌦 over there, right nowtheir time · 08:40
11°showers till lunchthen it clears. by four it’s jacket-on-your-arm weather.
🍲what's on the stove tonight6 cooking
📮 YOUR UPDATE HOME
Going the other way, too.
YOUyoutoday · ❄️ first winter
made it. first proper snow. i finally understand the boots by the door.
♥ 84💬 31people from there are asking if it's really that cold.
👤 ALSO FROM THERE
Harpreetfrom Punjab · here nine years
🗣 Punjabi-language overlap🤝 remembers what the first year asks of you
Someone else carrying both places at once.
🪶 RECONNECTING HERE
TaliaMi’kmaw · living in Kjipuktuk
🗣 reconnecting with Mi’kmawi’simk🤝 patient practice, not a test
Someone else getting closer to a part of home she wants back.
🎒
depth · preparing
Immerse yourself before you go.
Do you want to understand the place, or collect facts about it forever?
Humour, language and the tiny rules nobody teaches. They don’t sink in one by one. They sink in because you keep meeting them holding hands out in the world.
The Meanwhile feed slips you into ordinary local afternoons right now — 💬 someone recounting the family group chat that got completely out of hand, 🚶 a quiet video of someone’s evening walk with hellos for every neighbour along the way, 📝 a love note taped to a fridge, 📻 the radio host who overshares at midnight.
You follow writers who know the place inside out — yes, the fanfics; culture did not clock out because somebody posted at 1:14 a.m., and suddenly a joke lands that would have sailed past you last week.
🌐 Translation and 🔊 pronunciation sit right inside the app, so you can join in instead of just watching.
22:26
DiscoverMeanwhileHere
For youHappening HereWhat We’re Wearing
mariam in mcr ☆Living in Manchester · 4 yearsFollow•••
148268
hello newcomers 👋 this is my favourite hoodie. it is 24° outside. i have made my choice.
#Outfit today#Comfy things#Manchester life
Manchester · 13:18 there
ben, probablyNew in London · 8 monthsFollow•••
“
At what point does someone become your commute friend if neither of you has ever spoken?
3124921
The woman with the red scarf and I have missed the same train together four times now. I think we have history.
#Commute#Tiny connections#London life
London · 08:07 there
MoragLiving in Argyll · 2 yearsFollow•••
4273683
neither of us was in a hurry. Went out to call the dog in and we both ended up staying.
#Dogs#Slow moments#Rural life
Argyll and Bute · 20:46 there
AroundMapConnectMe
she looked back like you were the one being called in 😭mine would take this as official permission to stay outdoes it stay this light this late all summer?the wind and birds in this 🥹
MoragFollow
neither of us was in a hurry. Went out to call the dog in and we both ended up staying — long grass, then the hills, then the whole loch.
#dogs #argyll #slowevenings
Argyll and Bute弹 Add
Wind Leaves · Eugenio Mininni
Say something…4278336
AND WHEN YOUR BRAIN PANICS
wait, what do I bring to someone’s house??
YOU ALREADY KNOW
ah yes. I know this one.
🌐 translation, when you want it🔊 hear how it sounds
THREE THINGS DO THE WORK
KITS
For the things that become urgent five minutes before they happen.
Kits take one real situation and put the useful information in the order you need it: what usually happens, what changes here, what to do first, and which details are worth knowing before you are standing at somebody’s door holding the wrong thing.
✓🗣 Talking like a local
Does “we should do this sometime” mean anything here?
INSIDE THIS CHAPTER
Who follows up, who names the day, and when a vague plan has quietly become an actual plan.
🔒🏠 Being in someone’s home
What to bring, what happens at the door, when people usually leave, and whether helping with the dishes is expected, appreciated or politely refused.
🔒💊 Health and prescriptions
What to arrange before you go, what can wait until you arrive, and how to keep your care and prescriptions uninterrupted when the system works differently.
MORE KITS
a partner’s culturestudyingcoming homebusiness+ more
READS
Come for the story. The language help knows when not to interrupt.
Short fiction, essays, memoir, romance, horror and more from writers connected to the place, with translation, audio, vocabulary and notes waiting in the margins.
First winterEnglish / Arabic
AAmina♡ 1.2k
The bus I got wrongEnglish / Portuguese
TTomás♡ 640
The Bakery Across from My ExEnglish / Mandarin
MMei♡ 918
👆Tap a word when you need it.🔊Hear a line.🔖Save a phrase. Keep reading.
Save a Read once. Its audio, notes and vocabulary come with it.
MEANWHILE
The feed for places you aren’t in.
Videos, posts, questions and local notes from people living there now. Open it over dinner or on a walk and drop into whatever’s going on, including the discussion that apparently started with the bus and is now about the entire city.
LIVE · their 8:04 p.m.
WWei · out for a walk♡ 2.1k
🗒 LOCAL NOTE
The market moved two streets over. The old sign remains extremely confident.
📻On nowWhatever is playing on local radio, right now.
🍲Cook alongCook it wrong twice before you go.
watchreplyasktranslatesave for later
📚
Studying somewhere? Your kit tailors itself—housing timing, transit, real weekly budgets, life beyond campus, and what students here wish they’d known. A semester is a whole life, not a course selection.
students already there
✈️
depth · going
Everything you saved packs itself.
Halifax has moved from maybe to booked, so nothing you collected should sit behind like a forgotten umbrella. 📍 The Saturday market you saved, 📖 the story about surviving the first winter, 🍲 Joseph’s stew, 📝 that question you wrote down half-asleep, and 👋 Sofia, who also lands in September. They all move forward with you.
What began as a quiet curiosity becomes your actual first morning.
MY WORLDGOING SOON ✈️Halifax
Halifax · goingChengdu · dreamingLisbon · visiting in March
each place at its own depth. everything you saved came along:
📍 Seaport Marketsaved place
📖
First wintersaved Read
🍲 Joseph’s stewsaved recipe
NOTEBOOK · PRIVATEAsk before I go 📝
what do people wear to that first society meeting??
UPCOMING INTRO · VIA MINO, AFTER YOU ARRIVE
S
Sofiaalso arrives in September
NOTEBOOK · DAY PLANOne easy Saturdaymarket → water → somewhere warm
MY WORLD+NOTEBOOK
Chengdu can stay a daydream while Halifax gets your attention now. Lisbon has four days in March. My World holds them all without pretending they need the same thing from you.
Notebook holds the bits only you would remember: private notes beside a saved chapter, the society-meeting outfit panic, and a loose Saturday that ends somewhere warm.
Save something from the feed, the map or a conversation. Add the detail nobody else would think to write down. When the date gets close, the right things quietly return—no archaeological dig through your screenshots.
💾saved from anywhere, organised privately
🤝share one plan without sharing your whole notebook
🛬the right things come back when later becomes now
🧳Only visiting?
Four days do not need forty attractions. Tell us what you’re craving—a quiet morning, a loud market, one good bowl of something—and we’ll pull together a handful of things you’ll actually love, plus whatever’s on while you’re in town.
Then hand you a route that ends somewhere sensible, rather than across town wondering whose idea this was.
FOUR DAYS IN OCTOBER
🗓Oct 3–7🎟one event during your dates🚶a route that ends near your bed➕keep following the place after you leave
🔑
depth · newcomer
Start with one thing.
A new place can turn one normal task into seven tabs, three documents and instructions nobody gives in the same order. LikeMe puts the steps back where they belong. The Guide shows what unlocks what. Aino helps you make one useful move today. Mino introduces you to someone who understands the stage you’re in.
You do not have to understand the whole city before lunch.
📘 Guide — puts the steps in orderAino — helps with todayMino — brings someone alongside you
Kurisloth · São Paulo · arrival logistics
ESSENTIALS
"i have done this in eleven countries and i am still not fast. that's fine. wherever you're up to, i know what comes next." 🦥
YOUR ARRIVAL PATH
before landing · first night · phone ✓you are here: money & banking 🏦health · first route · a repeatable week
Set up local banking
step 4 of 7
Why now: in this plan, a local account makes your phone plan, payroll and rent payments easier. The order changes with the place and your situation; the Guide keeps track of what unlocks what.
🏦 bank accountunlocks →📱 phone plan💰 payroll🏠 rent payments
MATCHED TO YOUR SITUATION · NO FIXED ADDRESS YET
Provider A
accepts temporary address ✓$0 first yearbranch 6 min away
best for you
Provider B
needs proof of address ✗cheaper international transfers
ABOUT THIS EXAMPLE
Provider names are hidden here so this landing-page example does not promote one company over another. In LikeMe, you see exactly who each provider is, why it was included, whether it is a partner, and what information the recommendation is based on.
The same sequencing can cover health cover and waiting periods, a phone plan that works locally, and where to buy a duvet at nine at night because the flat, quite confidently, did not include one.
Ainomountain hare · Helsinki · turns “where do I even begin?” into one small route
WANDERthe map, minus the deciding
What would make today easier?
Feed me? I’ve been waiting for this.
A SMALL ROUTE FOR TODAY📍 Argyle Street
Lunch, one useful errand, then the waterfront
Warm noodles first, a pharmacy two minutes away, and an easy walk home before your social battery notices.
bus 9
shore path
bench facing out
noodle counter
pharmacy
boardwalk home
short bus
pond loop
home when ready
phone shop
bank branch
library reset
your door
the corner shop
back home
Aino scouts it. Rin goes with you.
Rin3:40 p.m. · as you wander
red panda · London & Chengdu · the one who goes with you
You’ve been walking for a while, and your next thing is not for another hour. There’s a cafe two streets over—quiet, solo-dining friendly, and it has the drink you always order. Want me to add it?
🚻 bathroom · 2 min📍 a note someone left here📦 a tiny treasure hidden nearby
Minopanda · Chengdu · introductions that explain themselves
mutual opt-in 🤝
Sofia arrived this month tooalso here on her own · quiet exploring
WHY MINO THINKS SO 👀
🍂 you both arrived this month🙋 both here on your own🤫 both prefer quiet exploring to big group events
Getting lost together still counts as exploring. Team up?
Both of you opt in, or nothing happens. Mino is patient.
A first week, in the order it actually happens.
✈️ before landing→🛏 first night→📱 phone→🏦 money & banking→💊 health
✓✓✓
When you get to a step that needs somebody — a phone, a mover, somewhere to live, help with the paperwork — the options are already there. Checked first. Never because anyone paid to be in front of you.
🏠 housing and rentals📦 movers and storage📱 phone and internet🧾 visa and settlement support🛡 insurance🗂 translation and documents
🧳AND NOW TO THE PEOPLE WHO DO THAT WORKmovers, agents, phone and internet, visa and settlement support, insurance, storage
Be there in the week somebody actually needs you.
Arriving somewhere is a sequence, and most of it is things a person does exactly once. Find somewhere to live. Get a number that works. Move the boxes. Sort the paperwork that unlocks the next three things.
LikeMe knows where somebody is in that sequence, because the Guide is what’s walking them through it. So when they reach the step you’re for, you’re one of the options in front of them — what you do, who it’s for, what it costs, in your own words.
Not a directory somebody has to go looking through. The right week.
✅Verified means something here
Somebody two weeks into a new country is choosing several providers quickly, with no local knowledge and nobody to ask. That’s the moment a checked listing is worth the most, so this is where checking is strictest.
✓who you are✓what you’re licensed or registered to do✓that your description of the service is accurate
It takes longer to get listed this way. It also means a newcomer can act on what they see.
⚖️Nobody pays to come first
You come up because somebody has reached the step you’re for, and because what you offer fits their situation.
THE WHOLE RANKING
the step they’ve reachedbudgetstatusdatespermanent address yet or not
Which means a small local firm with the right thing beats a national one with a marketing budget.
The paperwork ends eventually. Then you still need somewhere to work, food you actually cook, people who understand your hair, a school that suits your child, a way into the language, and some sense of how things get started here.
LikeMe is for the part where those start joining up.
BUILDING · NEW YORK · FOUR ROUTES FROM ONE FRONT DOORQueens, street level
🏠home · Queens☕Cafe on 30thROUTINE + WORK📚Queens libraryFAMILY + MY THING🗣language school🥬the grocer that has it💻desk for a day🏢the office, two days🤝founder hours🧪a possible pilot partner🎒🎒 the school run🩺clinic + pharmacy
One place. Several parts of a life taking shape. The routes overlap on purpose. The cafe is on two of them, and so is the library.
🗓
01A ROUTINE
Build a week you don’t have to invent every morning.
Where you can work for an hour. Which grocer stocks what you actually cook. Where class turns into real language practice. Which places make arriving alone feel ordinary.
LikeMe helps you plan the week, take the next step, and let it settle into something that runs itself.
My ordinary week · Queens📓 NOTEBOOK
MondayLANGUAGEClass at 9Practise somewhere nearby afterwardSave one phrase I heard in real life
MONDAY, OPENED
📍Cafe on 30th — 8 min walk from class, quieter before 4🗣Phrase to practise: “Could I have…”📘Guide step 3 of 5 — go at a quieter time🔁Backup if it’s busy: the bakery two doors down
keep thisnot todaytry next weekfind an easier version
TuesdayLIFE ADMINPick up prescriptionTry the grocer near the E trainHome before evening crowds
ThursdayWORK OUTSIDE HOMEOne quiet callLunch under $15Print documents on the way back
SaturdayLEAVE THE HOUSE GENTLYOne group or activitySomewhere easy to arrive aloneNo requirement to stay all afternoon
Notebook moves at whatever pace you’re actually going — shorten a block, push it a week, or ask for an easier version.
Need the next step, not the whole week?
GUIDEStart using the language outside class
1Save one low-pressure place.☕Cafe on 30th8 min · quiet before 4✓2Learn the phrase you need before going.3Go at a quieter time.4Try one interaction.5Add what happened to Notebook.
“We can start with one thing.”
Notebook holds your life. Guides put it in the order this place actually does it.
🎬 open to newcomers
THURSDAY · AFTER CLASSBeginner-friendly Spanish film group
👋 Several members are new too🚪 Fine to arrive alone🫖 People usually stay for tea afterward
save to Notebookask the groupadd to Thursday
SOMEONE BUILDING THE SAME PART OF LIFEMino thought of one person
Rania@raniainqueens · here 5 weeksopen to chat 💬
📍 Also new to Queens🗣 Intermediate Spanish🗓 Trying to build a weekday routine🎬 Open to attending one group together
why Mino thought of yousay hellonot now
INSIDE THE ROUTINE · LOCAL PLACES
Find places by what they’re good at.
Whether a cafe is calm at three. Whether a salon understands your hair. Whether the grocer reliably has the one ingredient. Whether a language school helps you use it outside the classroom. LikeMe shows what a place promises, what’s been confirmed recently, and why it came up for you.
🗺 Wander · useful things around me
🗣Instituto de la Lengua12 min · E train
A conversation session on Wednesday evening, whatever level you’re at. Placement is done before you pay for anything.
conversation-ledbeginner session
☕Cafe on 30th8 minutes away
Staff regularly serve learners from the school nearby. Quieter before 4pm. Your saved phrase “Could I have…” works here.
already savedcalm before 4
📚Astoria Bookshop15 min walk
Bilingual reading on the last Thursday of the month. People arrive alone and nobody performs.
bilingual eventarrive alone
🥬Mercado Guzmán6 min · same block as class
Four words from your phrase list are on the shelves here, and the person at the till will wait while you find them.
4 saved wordspatient staff
NO STARS
A place says what you can count on. Everyone who goes confirms whether it held.
Lovely. Now: is it calm at 3pm, can you get in with a pushchair, and can you sit for an hour?
This place’s promise☕ Cafe on 30th
🔉Quiet weekday afternoonsconfirmed recently
♿Step-free entrancestated + LikeMe-verified
🏷️Prices visible before orderingconfirmed across recent visits
🧍Fine to arrive alonecommonly confirmed
⏳You can stay about an hourconfirmed, quieter before four
✅HoldingEvery detail has been confirmed recently. Quiet hours shift once school finishes, and that’s on the page.
A promise is specific enough to confirm. That’s the difference.
YOU DON’T RATE THE PLACE. YOU ANSWER ONE PROMISE.
still truetrue at this timeit dependsthis changedcouldn’t confirm
WITH THE CONDITIONS ATTACHED
“I visited alone at 2pm. It was calm and nobody rushed me.”
🔧When something slips, you hear it firstThree recent visitors couldn’t use the step-free entrance. Nobody left a one-star review about it. LikeMe asked the cafe to update or clarify.
Everyone who goes answers the same question: is this still true? Nobody grades the place.
EVERY DETAIL CARRIES WHERE IT CAME FROM
🏪Business-statedSupplied by the place itself.
🔎LikeMe-verifiedOne specific claim, checked against evidence we can point at.
👥Community-confirmedA specific detail, supported across recent visits.
💬Personal contextOne person’s experience, under conditions that might not be yours.
🕰Worth a recheckOld, or likely to have changed since it was added.
The grocer, the cafe, the salon, the school on the corner.
🏪NOW SPEAKING TO THE PLACESthe cafes, grocers, salons and schools that help a life take shape
Be found by the people you’re right for.
Local businesses, language schools and local organisations are often where a new place begins becoming usable.
They’re where someone 🍜 finds food they recognise, 🗣 learns to speak with more confidence, 💈 finds somebody who knows their hair, 💻 works between appointments, 👋 meets people, asks questions, and slowly becomes a regular.
LikeMe helps those places say what they offer in their own words — hours, languages, access, what they’re good at — and be found by the people already looking for it.
The people who’ve just arrived are here, working out where things are and where they’ll keep going back to. When someone’s nearby with an hour spare and your place fits what they’re after, Rin points them to it.
They’re new. Their regular places aren’t decided yet.
More than category and distance. A place comes forward because it suits someone’s route, their budget, their access needs, their language goals, who they’ve got with them, or simply what they’re up for that day.
WHY THIS ONE CAME FORWARD
needs one calm hour→☕ Cafe on 30th
✓ on her route✓ under budget✓ calm before four
visible pricesfine to arrive alonestep-free entrancepatient conversation practice
🧭A profile with room for the detail
The things that make somewhere right for somebody.
Whether the space is calm or lively and when. What access is actually there. What the team specialises in, what’s reliably stocked, which languages are spoken, whether children are comfortable, what a first visit usually involves.
WHAT THE PROFILE CARRIES
🔉calm before four · lively after school lets out♿step-free entrance · accessible toilet🗣English · Spanish · Bangla🧒high chairs, and nobody minds the noise
specific enough that the right people recognise it
🤝Confirmed details, not a verdict
People confirm what matched, and when.
A cafe: quiet weekday afternoons, prices visible, fine to stay an hour, comfortable arriving alone. A school: conversation-led classes, clear placement, beginner social sessions. Visitors confirm the ones they found true, and the conditions come with them.
THIS PLACE’S PROMISE
quiet weekday afternoons✓ still true
step-free entrance✓ verified
fine to stay an hour✓ quieter before four
“Alone at 2pm, nobody rushed me.”
so people arrive expecting what you actually offer
🔄Details that stay current
Say it once, and keep it true.
Hours, stock, access, class levels, language support, appointment requirements, quiet and busy periods, family facilities, events. When something changes you update it, and when an experience depended on timing, that context sits alongside.
LAST CONFIRMED
opening hours2 days ago
step-free entrance1 week ago
class levels3 weeks ago
one detail worth a look ↻
kept up together
🗣️FOR LANGUAGE SCHOOLSThe classroom does what an app can’t. LikeMe has the hours around it.
LikeMe teaches language in earnest — lessons, decks, practice paths, a phrasebook, and stories with audio and vocabulary waiting in the margins. It gets somebody a long way on their own.
What it can’t do is sit across from them and hear the same mistake for the third week running. That’s a teacher, and it’s what takes words somebody recognises and makes them how they say things.
So LikeMe carries that work into the rest of the week.
SO A LEARNER MIGHT
🏫find a school and understand its teaching style⚖️compare levels, schedules and access📓save lessons and goals into Notebook📘follow a Guide before the first class🗺find nearby places to use it gently👋meet another learner at a similar stage🎬join a school event or conversation group💬bring real questions back into class
The school provides the depth and the progression. LikeMe puts it to use between lessons, and gives a learner more reasons to keep going.
We’re working with a small number of partners first, and we’d rather build this with you than present it finished.
Learners who are already committedPeople building a life in the language, at the point where they want somewhere to learn it properly.
Your teaching, in your own wordsStyle, class atmosphere, progression, social practice, accessibility, and what happens after someone enrols.
The city as practicePlaces, events, groups and situations where what they learned on Tuesday gets used on Thursday.
Momentum between lessonsNotebook planning, Guide steps, practice prompts and local opportunities, so the goal stays in front of them.
A reason to still be there in month sixLearning a language is mostly about not stopping. LikeMe puts it into the rest of their week.
🌱People who arrive ready
When someone knows why a place suits them before they walk in, the visit goes differently. They’ve sorted access, cost or language ahead of time. They notice what you’re actually good at, because that’s what brought them. And they have a reason to come back.
For you: visits from people you’re right for. For them: more places that turn into somewhere they keep going back to.
⚖️Nobody pays to come first
A place comes up because it fits — what you offer, what the person needs, the evidence behind it, the route, the time, the day they’re having. That’s the whole of it.
Paid services exist for verification, profile tools and keeping your information current. None of them move you up.
Which means a small place with the right thing wins the recommendation.
Fit decides what comes up. Nothing else does.
💼
02A WORKING LIFE
Find work — and understand the life around it.
LikeMe shows you the role and the week it would ask for.
A role can be right for you and still be wrong at 8:30 in the morning, on the third transfer, or once you’ve added up a month of lunches.
Opportunities through your lens🔎 YOUR PRIORITIES
product designearly-careerhybrid preferredno carsalary must be visiblequieter environmentnewcomer-friendly employers
✓Skills overlap with three saved projects✓Thirty-two minutes from home, no car✓Two office days rather than three✓Employer publishes its interview stages✓Workplace access information is current✓Newcomer professional group connected here
WORTH KNOWING BEFORE YOU APPLY
·Core hours start at 8:30 — that’s a 7:45 train from yours·Open-plan on team days, so the two remote days are where the quiet is·No relocation assistance listed — worth asking, some employers have it unadvertised
save to Notebookcompare the weekask the employersee people in this fieldstart application Guide
OFFICIAL INFORMATION
Salary range, contract, location, schedule, benefits, visa position, interview stages, accessibility contact, language requirements.
HOW WORK ACTUALLY OPERATES
When the team is present, meeting style, whether remote days are genuinely usable, what “business casual” means here, and what stays unknown.
SOMEONE ELSE WORKING THEIR WAY INTO THE SAME FIELDAlso entering product design in New York
Kojo@kojodesign · moved in Marchsame field
🎓 Similar experience level📌 Both saved Thursday’s portfolio event🤝 Open to attending together
Two people at the same point, not a recruiter and a candidate.
WORK GUIDEApply without losing the whole week
1Check the role against your non-negotiables.2Save two questions for the employer.3Adapt one relevant project.4Ask someone in the field for context.5Submit, and put the next date in Notebook.
NOTEBOOK · COMPARE THE WEEK, NOT THE OFFER
realistic commuteweekly scheduleaccesslanguagesensory environmentgrowthimmigration requirementseffect on the rest of life
Whether you’d get the job, and whether the job fits the life you’re building.
RIN DECODES ITred panda · London & Chengdu · reads the room so you don’t have to guess
“Fast-paced and highly collaborative”
Often means frequent live discussion, quick changes and not much uninterrupted time. The listing doesn’t say whether that’s mostly written or mostly meetings, which changes the answer completely.
ASK THEM THIS
“How much of a typical week is spent in scheduled meetings?”
add to my questionssee the full listingone question, easily answered
AND WHEN YOU’RE ALREADY OUT THEREWander knows you have an interview at two.
🤫somewhere quiet to prepare, 4 min🥪lunch under $15, on the way🖨a print shop that opens at 8🍻the design meetup two blocks away, 6pm
The day around it, handled.
👨👩👧
03A FAMILY RHYTHM
Build a week every person in the household can live inside.
A family doesn’t arrive as one person. The school may suit the child while the commute breaks the parent’s working day. A neighbourhood may look convenient while leaving an older relative isolated. A family outing can be technically accessible and still exhausting.
So everyone gets read on their own, and then the week gets built.
THE WEEK THEY ACTUALLY SHARE
Three people, one front door, and a timetable that has to hold all of them at once.
🧰 Household Kitthree people, read separately
👩Parent
🕗 Shift begins at 8:30🚇 Public transport only💊 Needs reliable pharmacy access
🧒Child, six
🗣 Language support needed🔀 Finds busy transitions hard🎒 First year at a new school
Both schools work. They just work differently for each person in the house.
THE SCHOOL RUN, FROM THE PEOPLE WHO DO IT EVERY DAY
Specific enough to plan around.
🎒3:15 PICKUP
“Fine at 3:15 — direct bus, then eight minutes on foot with two crossings that have no signal. The same walk at 6 is dark, and the shops on that stretch are shut.”
school runhow kids like yours are treatedafter darkgetting help fastweather that stops the weekthe bits people only mention once you live there
📓Backup pickup plan, in the Notebook your household shares.
FOR YOUR GRANDPARENTCommunity lunch in their first language
♿ Step-free venue, seating throughout🚐 Volunteer transport available📝 Registration required one day before
⚠️This overlaps with school pickup. Send someone else from the house, or find a later session.
QUESTIONS A FAMILY ASKS
What does pickup look like on a rainy weekday?Is the stated lift normally available during evening programmes?Which documents did the clinic ask for at the first appointment?
official requirementprovider answerrecent experiencestill changing
A week only works if it works for everyone in the house.
🚀
04SOMETHING OF YOUR OWN
Find out how people actually build things here.
Starting something in a new place means learning two systems at once: the formal one written on official websites, and the unofficial one made of timing, credibility, introductions and knowing which opportunity is real.
LikeMe carries both, and always says which one you’re looking at.
🛠 What are you building?“still working it out” is an option
📄Set it up
Incorporation routes, tax and registration, banking, insurance, licences — with the official source, and people who can help.
CERTIFICATE OF FORMATION✓ filed · 12 MayNY STATE
step 3 of 6 · licence next, if you sell food
official source ✓who to ask
🌐Understand the ecosystem
Active sectors, accelerators, grants, coworking, founder groups, university programmes — and what stage each one actually supports.
youFURTHER OUT →
TAKES YOU NOW
grants ✓founder group ✓
WANTS YOU FURTHER ALONG
acceleratorVC
stage-matchedwhat it really offers
🤝Find the right people
Founders at your stage, experienced operators, accountants and lawyers, collaborators, early hires, an hour with an end time on it.
YEYewandesecond company here · said yesthu 4–4:30
ACan accountantworks with newcomers · free first call
same stagean hour with an end time
🧪Test it here
Communities relevant to the product, pilot locations, small-business partners, neighbourhood differences, trust considerations.
🥬✓ yes🥐asked💈next
three doors on one street · the grocer’s in, the bakery’s thinking
pilot partnersstreet by street
🌿Build the working life
Places to work, meeting options, affordable routines, transport, time zones — and support outside the company.
MTWTFSS
desk dayscalls home, before 11kept empty
desks & meetingsa life outside it
New York newcomer-technology pilot programmeCLOSES IN 3 WEEKS
WHY IT CAME UP
✓Accepts pre-revenue companies✓Relevant to the people you build for✓Requires a local pilot partner
WORTH KNOWING BEFORE YOU APPLY
·No investment provided. It’s access and support, so weigh it against what you need most·Weekly in-person attendance, Wednesday mornings·Recent cohorts have leaned institution-facing, so worth asking how a consumer product fits
save to founder Notebookstart application Guidefind a pilot partnerask someone who did itcompare with another
AND EVERY LINE SAYS WHERE IT CAME FROM
OFFICIAL REQUIREMENTNew York State source · checked recently
PROGRAMME-STATEDSupplied by the programme organiser
COMMUNITY-CONFIRMEDApplication timeline confirmed by recent participants
FOUNDER EXPERIENCEOne founder’s circumstances, under conditions that might not be yours
STILL CHECKINGWhether this applies to foreign-owned companies. Nobody’s answered it here yet.
RIN DECODES ITred panda · London & Chengdu · reads the room so you don’t have to guess
“Warm introductions strongly preferred.”
Usually means they do read cold outreach, they just give more attention to referrals from people they already trust. A short note referencing a relevant project or programme can still land.
find a real connectiondraft the notesave this one for later
PEOPLE WHO’VE BEEN THROUGH SOME OF THISFour kinds of person, one reason each
🌱 Someone building at a similar stage🛂 A former newcomer who incorporated here🧾 An operator who has been through this programme🏪 A local business open to a small pilot
You always see why somebody came up.
What’s possible here, who’s around, what an opportunity really offers, and what there is to do next.
THE SAME FOUR ROUTES, LATER
The pins stop being pins. They start carrying what you know about them.
☕usual after class💻works for calls🚌school backup route🍲grandparent’s Thursday group❓ask this employer🤝pilot conversation next week👋they know my order
A life does not appear all at once.
It forms through the routines you repeat, the work you enter, the people you care for, and the things you decide to build.
LikeMe keeps those pieces connected while the place becomes yours.
🫶
depth · becoming familiar
Meet people you’ll actually keep seeing.
A new place can make you want two things at once: people who open your world up, and people who make it feel a little less far from home.
WHAT ARE YOU OPEN TO?
Tell LikeMe what kind of connection you’re open to — several at once is fine.
🫂 friendship💛 dating🗣 language partners📚 study buddies🌾 heritage ties🧳 fellow newcomers💼 professional connections📍 local connection
Then what matters underneath it.
THE OBVIOUS THINGS
Hobbies, interests, how social you are, what you like doing together.
🎨 what you do🔋 how social🎟 what you’d do together
AND THE ONES THAT TAKE LONGER TO SAY
👨👩👧How family fits into your life.
⚖️What commitment, money and 50/50 mean now—and if things become serious.
🍲Whether you grew up feeding everybody, or spent adulthood carefully unlearning half of what home taught you.
🛋Whether a quiet Sunday sounds perfect or vaguely threatening.
HOW MUCH FAMILIARITY?
You decide. Keep it close. Open it wide.
🏡keep it close🎚🌍open it wide
Your balance leans a little more familiar.
Familiar means familiar to you, so the optional culture lens asks about the world you grew up in: how home ran, what the street outside sounded like, how people spoke to each other, what counted as funny, warm, polite or rude.
You don’t name a culture, and we never ask who you’d like around you. It just means somewhere you’ve never been can still have parts that feel familiar.
🏡 A house that runs like yours can be anywhere.NEVER PART OF THE MATCH
raceheightpopularitywhoever’s nearest
And nobody is shown to someone who’s already said they don’t want this kind of connection.
Swipe or scroll when you feel like browsing. Or let Mino bring you up to ten strong introductions a day, each with an explanation.
NOT
“here are the ten hottest people nearby.”
MORE
“you both arrive next month, prefer quiet plans, take relationships slowly and believe feeding people is a valid personality trait.”
TWO WEEKS LATER
coffee thursday? ☕window-seat place?yes. i’ll bring something.you always bring something.correct. see you at 4.
🔁now a Thursday thing — Elin is part of your ordinary week.
context → a relevant person → a real plan → familiar life
CONNECT · STRONG OVERLAP
Elin · Stockholm, Swedenfriendship & dating
The thing I want people to get about me →
“I grew up in a house where arriving empty-handed caused concern. I still bring food.”
WHY ELIN CAME UP ✨
family comes with youplans > spontaneityquiet Sundays50/50 means the future toospicy food is normal foodthe aquarium counts as a date
You both opted into this kind of connection.
🫶
The core system is free, and it stays that way.We’d rather Elin became Thursday coffee. Someone becoming part of your ordinary week, rather than another face in a queue.
You end up with somebody in your ordinary week.
🏠
depth · local
Then one day, it’s just… home.
Or perhaps it always was.
LikeMe just gets a different job once you stop feeling new. Here keeps up with the place while you’re busy living in it: what changed this morning, what’s happening tonight, what people nearby are asking, and the small local matter that has somehow become everybody’s business.
JOINED AS A LOCAL?
Come straight in. No arrival arc required.
See what your community’s doing, meet people around you, join discussions, get useful alerts, and find parts of home you’ve somehow missed for six years.
Some days you need the answer. Some days you’re the person who happens to know it.
HEREthe feed for where you live · what’s happening around you now
Alerts, events, questions, local notes and conversations from the place you actually live.
⚠️
Ferry running less often today
Repairs on the Halifax–Dartmouth route until 7 p.m.
Market night moved indoors. The band still starts at 7.
NNorth End · 46 going♡ 128
PEOPLE NEARBY ARE ASKING 💬
Who’s good with 4C hair on the peninsula?
7 answers · 2 with directions · asked 5h ago
And your ordinary life here matters. The breakfast you grew up with. What people actually wear when the weather does that. A joke that makes no sense until somebody explains the last twenty years. The quiet route home. The thing visitors always misunderstand.
You don’t need to become glamorous to share where you live. Glamour is welcome. So is toast. 🍞
Your post only has to be true to the part you know. Together, those small accounts give somebody elsewhere a version of Halifax, Chengdu or Lisbon they could never have found by searching “what is it like?” for the seventeenth time.
FROM HERE, FOR SOMEONE WONDERING
What does an ordinary breakfast look like where you are?
he says he doesn't even like queso frito 😂
MMateo · Ontariohelpful to 24 people today
photolocal lifefood
LEAVE A LOCAL NOTEthe information too small for an article and too useful to lose
The waterfront wind is serious today. Tie your hair before it introduces itself to Dartmouth.
weather✓ confirmed by 8 locals
YOUR CONTRIBUTION
Eighteen people got somewhere useful today because of you.
7🍳 saved your breakfast post6🗒 opened your local note5📍 found the market through your answer
Nobody’s ranked here, and nobody has to keep it up. Just a small receipt for something useful you shared.
A DISCUSSION NEAR YOU
Is the number 1 bus becoming less reliable, or have we all offended it personally?
Aino knows you’re not new. No bank-account checklist, no solemn explanation of the waterfront. Instead:
🌿 somewhere quiet I’ve overlooked🍜 one place worth crossing town for🎨 something made here🌀 show me another side of home🎲 surprise me
A SMALL ROUTE FOR THIS AFTERNOON
Old bookshop → community garden → bakery window
Three places within twenty minutes of one another. You’ve lived here for six years. Apparently the garden has also been here for six years.
CONNECT HERE
Meet neighbours, people with the same interests, people from another part of the city, or somebody who’s also been meaning to attend the Tuesday drawing group for nine consecutive Tuesdays.
🫂 friendship📍 local community🎨 hobbies💼 professional🗣 language
Everything else in LikeMe stays open too. Wander somewhere unfamiliar. Use a Kit for a situation you’ve simply never had before. Learn how another community experiences the same streets. Or ask Aino for something nearby that might remind you why you liked living here in the first place.
LikeMe changes as what home means to you changes, and it stays.
YOUR HOME, STILL UNFOLDING
📣know what changed
🫶find people nearby
🗺discover more of where you live
💬answer the thing you happen to know
🌍help someone elsewhere understand this place
Home is where you finally have stories to add.
grounded in research
Warm on top. Serious underneath.
The warmth is there because people need it. But if LikeMe is going to help with where you live, how you prepare and who you meet, the system underneath has to earn the right to make a suggestion.
The matching questions, Culture Fingerprint, Place Reads, Kits, local surveys and cohort tests are informed by published research, checked against lived experience, and measured by whether they actually help someone.
peer-reviewed where it appliestested where we buildthin evidence stays thin
01THE RIGHT PLACE DEPENDS ON THE PERSON
Fit is tied to wellbeing and health.
BUILT INTOPlace ReadsCulture Fingerprinthousehold matchingprivate lenses
A registered report following more than 39,000 immigrants found that how well someone fit their surrounding community was associated with their wellbeing and self-reported health.
Other large-scale research found that cultural similarity doesn’t benefit everybody in the same way. Personality changes the answer.
The Culture Fingerprint is informed by established personality research, but it remains a LikeMe model — not a diagnosis, and one we’ll keep testing against how people actually experience places.
So: LikeMe starts by asking what works for you — what you need, what you enjoy, what drains you, who’s coming with you, and how much familiarity or stretch you want.
What exists and what it feels like are two different answers.
BUILT INTOlocal surveyslived accountsevidence labelsfact confirmationsoutdated reports
A systematic review of 85 studies comparing objective neighbourhood data with residents’ own accounts found the two often don’t line up neatly. A place can have the park, the bus route or the nearby service on paper while the people living there experience its usefulness very differently.
It also found the gap isn’t random. Income was one of the things that predicted whether somebody’s experience of their neighbourhood matched the official picture of it.
Both answers are true. Each one knows something the other can’t.
One resident doesn’t become the whole city by pressing Post. They become one honest part of the answer.
So: LikeMe keeps checked information beside lived accounts. Data tells you what exists. People tell you what it becomes during an ordinary week. Evidence labels show what’s well supported, where experiences differ and what’s still thin.
Preparation works better when it teaches behaviour.
BUILT INTOKitsarrival Guidesscenario checklistslocal scripts
A systematic review of cross-cultural training in universities found the strongest and most consistent results in programmes that included behavioural practice. Learning facts helped less when nobody showed people how to use them.
Knowing the custom is not the same as knowing what to do when the door opens.
So: Kits begin with the situation — someone’s home, a first date, a prescription, move-in day — and teach what usually happens, what changes locally, and what to do next.
BUILT INTOMino introductionsConnectlocal answersnewcomer and local matching
Research on resident–visitor interaction found that getting to know people from a place contributed to deeper immersion in it, and that immersion was linked to stronger attachment to the place.
Separate research found that interactions with residents shaped both what visitors understood about a destination and how they felt about it.
So: Connect carries as much of a place as the information does. Sometimes one person explains the joke, answers the question that felt too small to ask, or becomes Thursday coffee — and the whole place sharpens around them.
BUILT INTOcohort testscontribution receiptscorrectionsfact reviewpartner insights
In cohorts, we check whether people come back without prompting, whether LikeMe told them something they couldn’t find alone, whether a Guide helped them make the next move, and whether the same fixable problem keeps appearing.
People can confirm facts, flag what’s outdated, and tell us when the model missed. Universities and partners can see repeated needs without seeing the individual people inside them.
So: LikeMe stays correctable. The system changes when the evidence, the place, or the people using it show us something better.
LikeMe’s own cohort testing, not an external study · methods and review dates published
METHODS & RESEARCH
The papers, survey logic, evidence rules, known limits and review dates behind LikeMe.
Years ago I wanted to go somewhere, and I was afraid of what it would be like for me there. So I asked. The confident answers came from people who’d never had to ask it about themselves, and they were at the top. The people who had actually gone were near the bottom, barely voted on at all.
They bought groceries, made friends, got bored, had good days. Their lives sounded ordinary. Often lovely. Nothing like the place described above them.
I never made the trip. Then someone from there came into my life instead.
Being close to someone who had grown up somewhere very different from me taught me something the search results hadn’t. So much of a culture lives in tiny, ordinary things nobody thinks to explain: what counts as affection, what feels thoughtful, how families show care, who follows up, what a silence means, and all the little rules that only become visible when two people grew up with different ones.
We learned a lot of those things together, sometimes because one of us stopped and asked, wait — what does that mean to you?
The answers existed. They were just scattered across old forums, family advice, search results, and the kindness of people willing to explain. I started gathering them into something we could actually use. Those became LikeMe Kits.
Then the idea grew.
What if you could see the ordinary lives already being lived somewhere, before deciding it wasn’t for you?
What if a place could be understood around your actual life — not the loudest warning, the most popular city, or an imaginary average person?
What if one local story, one routine or one person could bring a whole place into focus?
LikeMe grew from both experiences: wanting to understand what a place could really be like for someone like me, and wanting to understand the world of someone important to me without reducing either of us to stereotypes, warnings or a list of facts.
It’s the app I needed then. Somewhere to see the lives people are already living, understand where your own life could fit, and enter a place with more context, more connection and far less guesswork.
— Mirabel, founder of LikeMe
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LikeMe is built under Basically Normal, the belief that being human is basically normal. Our differences are part of ordinary life, not proof that anyone is alien.
privacy, by design
Useful without knowing everything about you.
LikeMe needs just enough context to give you a good answer. Not your life story.
It’s an independent project built by an immigrant founder — not a government or immigration service. What you tell LikeMe shapes your experience here. It doesn’t get reported to either.
🎭Your legal identity can stay out of it
Use the name you actually want to be known by. Your public profile doesn’t need your full legal name or your exact date of birth.
The neighbourhood doesn’t improve because we know your middle name.
🔞Age checks happen somewhere else
Some parts of the platform are 18+. When you need to prove your age, an independent verification service does the checking — your document goes to them, never to us.
What comes back is a yes or a no. That’s all we’re told, and all we keep.
✓ yes / noYour date of birth never reaches us.
🗝️Your Place Read is yours
Your matches, private lenses, notes and whole For You read belong to you. Friends, businesses, universities and cities don’t get access.
Organisations can see anonymous patterns across a group — never an individual Place Read, never a private lens, never the person behind either.
🤝Shared plans don’t share private reasons
When you plan with someone, LikeMe checks what each of you needs privately. The shared plan shows where things work for everyone, without announcing who needed a quiet route, an accessible entrance, a specific prayer time, or anything else that’s nobody’s business but yours.
If you want somebody to know, you tell them. LikeMe doesn’t do it for you.🔐You choose what leaves the private layer
A private lens can shape what LikeMe shows you without ever appearing on your profile. Your Notebook stays entirely yours while you share one route, list or day plan.
Private by default. Shared on purpose.
City by city, back to back
Come in from wherever you are.
Halifax is first. The world comes next.
The first complete LikeMe city opens with a founding cohort in Halifax, newcomers using it in the middle of real life. Then more, quickly: a map with one city on it isn’t much use to anyone who’s actually moving. Join the list and say where you are; your city moves up it.
Anyone can join. That’s the whole door.
1Halifax founding cohortThe first complete city, in daily use.
2The next ones 🌏Say where you are and where you’d want it. The list decides the order.
3Businesses & institutions 🏛️Cafes, universities, employers, city services and community organisations. This is where the people arriving will be looking.
Halifax cohort, a future city, or just curious — start here.
This is where the people arriving will be looking — start here.
You already look after people arriving. This runs alongside that.
✓ confirmed
Thanks — we’ve got you.
We read every one of these ourselves. Someone will come back to you about what LikeMe would look like in your city, and we’ll walk your team through the privacy model before anything begins.
What follows is how your city’s map starts filling in. What you add is what the next person arriving gets to see, and when your city opens, your places are already on it.
When you’re out, you’re usuallyPICK UP TO 2
When you’re most likely to wanderPICK ONE
Where you’d use itOPTIONAL
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Answer none of it if you’d rather — nothing here changes your place.
✓ added
That’s your corner started.
Thank you — one more place on the map than there was this morning, and someone arriving in your city will be glad it’s there.
Want to add another?Only if a spot comes to mind.
It’s a free Saturday afternoon. You don’t know this part of the city yet — what’s one thing worth wandering into?
We’ll be in touch when your city opens.Know someone else who’s moving? likeme.world 💌
People arrive through a course, a job, family, or a new start. Your arrival information, events, opportunities and support sit in the same place as local knowledge and the questions people ask each other.
LikeMe stays with them before they arrive, through the first weeks, and long after orientation ends. Over time you see what a cohort keeps needing — in aggregate, never a named person.
official information and local context, side by sidecommunity before, during and after arrivalthe questions that come up at 9pmpatterns only, never a named personwelcome → ordinary life
Most teams want the privacy model first. Happy to talk it through, or send it over beforehand — whichever suits.
Local businesses & community partners 🏪
Be there when somebody genuinely needs what you do.
The people who’ve just arrived are here, working out where things are and where they’ll keep going back to.
When someone’s nearby with an hour spare and your place fits what they’re after, Rin points them to it — your hours, your languages, your access, what you actually offer, in your own words.
They’re new. Their regular places aren’t decided yet.
claim your place pagethe languages you actually speakaccess, described by youwhat’s on this weekfound by the people it suits
People share only what they choose. Identity answers stay private unless you decide otherwise, and never become a label on your profile by default. We don’t sell data, and we don’t sell placement.